{"id":10680,"date":"2018-11-02T08:03:52","date_gmt":"2018-11-02T13:03:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/carterembry.com\/\/?p=10680"},"modified":"2021-12-29T17:24:13","modified_gmt":"2021-12-29T23:24:13","slug":"dear-abby-assumptions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/fr\/2018\/dear-abby-assumptions\/%20","title":{"rendered":"Les hypoth\u00e8ses de Dear Abby..."},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"pl-10680\"  class=\"panel-layout\" ><div id=\"pg-10680-0\"  class=\"panel-grid panel-no-style\" ><div id=\"pgc-10680-0-0\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell\" ><div id=\"panel-10680-0-0-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-first-child\" data-index=\"0\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t>\n<div class=\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\">\n\t<p>Beaucoup de gens qui me connaissent savent que j'adore observer les gens, et cela passe en partie par la lecture des rubriques de conseils \"Cher ...\". Je trouve qu'elles me donnent d'autres perspectives et m'aident dans des situations qui se pr\u00e9sentent dans ma propre vie. La plupart d'entre eux essaient de montrer une r\u00e9ponse empathique et honn\u00eate aux probl\u00e8mes sur lesquels ils sont interrog\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p>Ce matin, je lisais \"Dear Abby\" et j'ai lu que la coll\u00e8gue de travail de l'auteur vomissait r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement dans la salle de bain. Elle n'\u00e9tait pas assez proche de cette coll\u00e8gue pour v\u00e9rifier si elle allait bien, mais \"Abby\" lui a dit de contacter les RH en indiquant l'heure \u00e0 laquelle cette personne \u00e9tait malade pour qu'ils puissent organiser une \"intervention m\u00e9dicale\".<\/p>\n<p>Tu peux lire la lettre compl\u00e8te ici :<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><div id=\"panel-10680-0-0-1\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-button\" data-index=\"1\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-button so-widget-sow-button-flat-4ceac46c5c07-10680\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><div class=\"ow-button-base ow-button-align-center\"\n>\n\t\t\t<a\n\t\t\t\t\thref=\"https:\/\/www.uexpress.com\/dearabby\/2018\/11\/1\/concern-over-womans-health-grows-to\"\n\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"sowb-button ow-icon-placement-left ow-button-hover\" \t>\n\t\t<span>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tCher Abby...\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><div id=\"panel-10680-0-0-2\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-last-child\" data-index=\"2\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t>\n<div class=\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\">\n\t<p>J'ai trouv\u00e9 cette r\u00e9ponse horrible. Pendant des d\u00e9cennies de ma vie, tout le monde m'a trait\u00e9 comme si mes vomissements \u00e9taient dus \u00e0 la boulimie ou par choix.<\/p>\n<p>Plusieurs m\u00e9decins ont dit que j'avais un trouble de l'alimentation et m'ont donn\u00e9 un traitement inutile pour cela.<\/p>\n<p>On ne m'a pas propos\u00e9 de r\u00e9gime d'\u00e9limination pour v\u00e9rifier les allergies et\/ou les sensibilit\u00e9s avant que j'aie largement d\u00e9pass\u00e9 les 30 ans. On ne m'a pas test\u00e9 pour autre chose que des probl\u00e8mes de thyro\u00efde, ni recommand\u00e9 \u00e0 un sp\u00e9cialiste de la gastro-intestinale avant que j'aie plus de 30 ans.<\/p>\n<p>Dans cette r\u00e9ponse, \"Dear Abby\" a suppos\u00e9, tout comme l'auteur, que la personne malade ne g\u00e9rait pas ses vomissements au mieux de ses capacit\u00e9s, et que l'auteur ne le savait peut-\u00eatre pas parce qu'il n'\u00e9tait m\u00eame pas assez proche pour demander si la personne malade allait bien.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"pgc-10680-0-1\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell\" ><div id=\"panel-10680-0-1-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"3\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t>\n<div class=\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\">\n\t<p>Et pour la premi\u00e8re fois de ma vie, j'ai \u00e9crit \u00e0 un \"Cher ...\". \" moi-m\u00eame. Voici ma r\u00e9ponse :<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"quote\">\n<p>Cher Abby,<\/p>\n<p>Je viens de lire ta r\u00e9ponse sur le manager qui vomit r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement dans les toilettes.<\/p>\n<p>Apr\u00e8s des ann\u00e9es \u00e0 \u00eatre accus\u00e9e d'\u00eatre boulimique, et \u00e0 \u00eatre taquin\u00e9e et jug\u00e9e pour cela, on m'a diagnostiqu\u00e9 le syndrome de vomissement cyclique et d'autres comorbidit\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p>Je serais terriblement embarrass\u00e9e par ta suggestion de demander aux RH d'attraper la personne malade dans les toilettes. Je serais encore plus embarrass\u00e9e de d\u00e9couvrir que mes coll\u00e8gues ont \u00e9t\u00e9 assez obs\u00e9d\u00e9s pour \u00e9crire \u00e0 une colonne de conseils \u00e0 ce sujet.<\/p>\n<p>Et si nous r\u00e9alisions que cette personne est un adulte et qu'elle g\u00e8re tr\u00e8s probablement ses probl\u00e8mes de sant\u00e9 personnels du mieux qu'elle peut et que nous lui donnions de l'intimit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Merci,<\/p>\n<p>Ammi<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Beaucoup de gens qui me connaissent savent que j'aime observer les gens, et cela passe notamment par la lecture des rubriques de conseils \"Cher...\". Je trouve qu'ils me donnent d'autres perspectives et m'aident dans des situations qui se pr\u00e9sentent dans ma propre vie. La plupart d'entre eux essaient de donner une r\u00e9ponse empathique et honn\u00eate aux probl\u00e8mes qu'ils [...]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,13,14,2],"tags":[32,38,42,96,102,131,147,177,224,242,283],"class_list":["post-10680","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-about-ammi","category-eds","category-food-allergies","category-health","tag-about-ammi","tag-advice","tag-ammi","tag-dear-abby","tag-eds","tag-food","tag-health","tag-life","tag-personal","tag-response","tag-thought-piece"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10680","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10680"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10680\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13119,"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10680\/revisions\/13119"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10680"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10680"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10680"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}