{"id":10680,"date":"2018-11-02T08:03:52","date_gmt":"2018-11-02T13:03:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/carterembry.com\/\/?p=10680"},"modified":"2021-12-29T17:24:13","modified_gmt":"2021-12-29T23:24:13","slug":"dear-abby-assumptions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/es\/2018\/dear-abby-assumptions\/%20","title":{"rendered":"Querida Abby supone..."},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"pl-10680\"  class=\"panel-layout\" ><div id=\"pg-10680-0\"  class=\"panel-grid panel-no-style\" ><div id=\"pgc-10680-0-0\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell\" ><div id=\"panel-10680-0-0-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-first-child\" data-index=\"0\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t>\n<div class=\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\">\n\t<p>Mucha gente que me conoce sabe que me encanta observar a la gente, y parte de ello es leer las columnas de consejos \"Querido...\". Me parece que me dan otras perspectivas y me ayudan en situaciones que surgen en mi propia vida. La mayor\u00eda de ellas tratan de mostrar una respuesta emp\u00e1tica y honesta para los problemas sobre los que se pregunta.<\/p>\n<p>Esta ma\u00f1ana estaba leyendo \"Querida Abby\" y le\u00ed que la compa\u00f1era de trabajo de la escritora vomitaba en el ba\u00f1o regularmente. No estaba lo suficientemente cerca de esta compa\u00f1era de trabajo para comprobar si estaba bien, pero \"Abby\" le dijo que se pusiera en contacto con RRHH con el tiempo que esta persona estaba enferma para que pudieran organizar una \"intervenci\u00f3n m\u00e9dica\".<\/p>\n<p>Puedes leer la carta completa aqu\u00ed:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><div id=\"panel-10680-0-0-1\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-button\" data-index=\"1\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-button so-widget-sow-button-flat-4ceac46c5c07-10680\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><div class=\"ow-button-base ow-button-align-center\"\n>\n\t\t\t<a\n\t\t\t\t\thref=\"https:\/\/www.uexpress.com\/dearabby\/2018\/11\/1\/concern-over-womans-health-grows-to\"\n\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"sowb-button ow-icon-placement-left ow-button-hover\" \t>\n\t\t<span>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tQuerida Abby...\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><div id=\"panel-10680-0-0-2\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-last-child\" data-index=\"2\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t>\n<div class=\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\">\n\t<p>Esta respuesta me pareci\u00f3 horrible. Durante d\u00e9cadas de mi vida fui tratada por todo el mundo como si mis v\u00f3mitos fueran bulimia o por elecci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Muchos m\u00e9dicos me consideraron que ten\u00eda un trastorno alimentario y me dieron un tratamiento innecesario por ello.<\/p>\n<p>No me dieron la opci\u00f3n de hacer una dieta de eliminaci\u00f3n para comprobar si ten\u00eda alergias y\/o sensibilidades hasta que super\u00e9 los 30 a\u00f1os. No me hicieron pruebas de nada fuera de los problemas de tiroides, ni me recomendaron a un especialista gastrointestinal hasta que tuve m\u00e1s de 30 a\u00f1os.<\/p>\n<p>\"Querida Abby\" asumi\u00f3 en esta respuesta, al igual que la escritora, que la persona enferma no estaba lidiando con los v\u00f3mitos de la mejor manera posible, y que tal vez la escritora no lo sab\u00eda porque ni siquiera est\u00e1bamos lo suficientemente cerca como para preguntar si la persona enferma estaba bien.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"pgc-10680-0-1\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell\" ><div id=\"panel-10680-0-1-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"3\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t>\n<div class=\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\">\n\t<p>Y por primera vez en mi vida, escrib\u00ed a un \"Querido ... \" a m\u00ed mismo. Esta es mi respuesta:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"quote\">\n<p>Querida Abby,<\/p>\n<p>Acabo de leer tu respuesta sobre el director que vomita regularmente en el ba\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de a\u00f1os de ser acusada de ser bul\u00edmica, y de que se burlaran y juzgaran por ello, me diagnosticaron el S\u00edndrome de V\u00f3mito C\u00edclico y otros comorbilidades.<\/p>\n<p>Me avergonzar\u00eda enormemente tu sugerencia de que RRHH pillara al enfermo en el ba\u00f1o. Todav\u00eda me avergonzar\u00eda descubrir que mis compa\u00f1eros de trabajo se han obsesionado lo suficiente como para escribir a una columna de consejos sobre ello.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 tal si nos damos cuenta de que esta persona es un adulto, y que probablemente est\u00e1 lidiando con sus problemas de salud personales lo mejor que puede y le damos privacidad?<\/p>\n<p>Gracias,<\/p>\n<p>Ammi<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mucha gente que me conoce sabe que me encanta observar a la gente, y parte de ello es leer columnas de consejos \"Querido...\". Encuentro que me dan otras perspectivas y me ayudan en situaciones que surgen en mi propia vida. La mayor\u00eda de ellos intentan mostrar una respuesta emp\u00e1tica y honesta para los problemas sobre los que [...]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,13,14,2],"tags":[32,38,42,96,102,131,147,177,224,242,283],"class_list":["post-10680","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-about-ammi","category-eds","category-food-allergies","category-health","tag-about-ammi","tag-advice","tag-ammi","tag-dear-abby","tag-eds","tag-food","tag-health","tag-life","tag-personal","tag-response","tag-thought-piece"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10680","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10680"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10680\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13119,"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10680\/revisions\/13119"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10680"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10680"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carterembry.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10680"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}